Baby Mama Drama!!!

I Have never in my wildest dreams ever thought that I would be in such a situation…I just have too many questions, does having children with someone automatically make you soul mates? What about the people who have been separated, share 4 children and are leaving a beautiful life apart.

I really don’t mind being in a relationship with a guy that has a child (children), but I honestly cannot stand women who nag and think that giving a man a child, binds him to her till the end of time. Once you break-up regardless of what you share or shared, it’s done with you. Some girls sell themselves very cheap when they constantly run behind their EXs looking for love in the past.

So ladies if your baby daddy has moved on, deal with it and do the same, if you can’t then simply work on giving your child the best life. Forcing love is like digging your own grave. Men will always be men, they have the power to beside whom they want to get married to and who to play around with. He truly loves you…girl, he will surely not give you kids them leave.

JUST SAYING.

MOTIVATIONAL TALK...

You've got to follow your passion. You've got to figure out what it is you love--who you really are. And have the courage to do that. I believe that the only courage anybody ever needs is the courage to follow your own dreams.

- Oprah Winfrey

I have always wondered what people think of me, if they really like me or pretend to. My life revolved around people’s opinions and there perspective of me, until I realise that God created everyone different with functions that are in no way identical.

That was the day I genuinely started loving myself, my thoughts, my body and soul. I realised that I am a GREAT person, a DIVA in the making. All I have to do is have goals, visions and a passion to prosper. I now know what I want in life. I have an idea of where am going and how to get there. I will make mistakes, but that will only give me strength to face another day with its challenge.

I have what it takes to be whatever I want to be. My name will be remembered by generations to come. I will be a great success and iGugu (treasure) to the world.

WHEN THE TIME COMES, DO NOT SAY I DID NOT WARN YOU.

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